This post is one of the hardest ones
I think I have ever written
when my Dad's sister came down this year
she came with a purpose
the farm has been sitting
without care, without heat
for 2 years now
it is deteriorating
and getting worse as the time goes on
back in the 70's
it was signed over to the 5 kids
so that was my Dad, his brother and sisters
there were a lot of items distributed at that time
to the family members
along with an auction to sell off other things
when Grampy passed away
in 1994
more things were divided up
but there were still things left there.
Last summer some items were taken out of the farm
without permission of the remaining 4
it is something that has divided the family
made things very hard
I feel out of sorts
and out of it mostly as since Dad's passing
we don't have a say anymore about what goes on...
so when 3 of the 4
gave me the opportunity
to go in and take a look around
I was looking for memories...
knowing my love for dishes
and the memories these ones brought
I was tickled pink to get these....
I think I have ever written
when my Dad's sister came down this year
she came with a purpose
the farm has been sitting
without care, without heat
for 2 years now
it is deteriorating
and getting worse as the time goes on
back in the 70's
it was signed over to the 5 kids
so that was my Dad, his brother and sisters
there were a lot of items distributed at that time
to the family members
along with an auction to sell off other things
when Grampy passed away
in 1994
more things were divided up
but there were still things left there.
Last summer some items were taken out of the farm
without permission of the remaining 4
it is something that has divided the family
made things very hard
I feel out of sorts
and out of it mostly as since Dad's passing
we don't have a say anymore about what goes on...
so when 3 of the 4
gave me the opportunity
to go in and take a look around
I was looking for memories...
knowing my love for dishes
and the memories these ones brought
I was tickled pink to get these....
Aunt Sue, Heather & I went through some of the items
that she packed up to take back with her
we spent an evening going through papers
and pictures
lots of treasures
this is my g
Great Grandmother's high school
entrance certificate ~ dated July 1899
These were some of the items that I wanted to get shots of
before they were packed up and handed down
to the next generation.
Gina and I were lucky enough
to go back in while she was here
and go on a treasured memory hunt of our own
more on that to come...
5 comments:
Oh Lori I can relate to this so much and feel your pain...won't go into detail here.
So happy you were able to go in and retrieve some special items. The pictures are incredible and I love the scissors. Have a pair of my grandmother's that are very similar.
xoxo to you dear heart.
Carrie
Oh Lori I understand your pain. When Honey's dad died the house became a shrine and everything in it held a memory. He was able to pick out important keepsakes, but his mom auctioned off his whole workshop and has pretty much erased him from the house. I understand...she's remarried now and it's painful, but it's also weird. There's not even a picture of him anywhere.
Ugh, I hate going through someone else's stuff after they have passed. You got some great stuff there though. I can see why you would want them. Loving the china cabinet behind your cousin! Just gorgeous!
What precious memories, Lori....beautiful post, my friend...I know how you feel about this having gone thru this myself! xxoo :)
You have a way with words Lori..you captured my feelings and thoughts as well. Guess we really are a lot alike. As we said when we went through the farm, we have so many memories that pictures and things cannot capture...they are in are heads and our hearts. They go with us everywhere...even miles away! Miss you! xo
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