Wednesday, August 24, 2016

A Mother's Love

So I didn't mean to be away this long
I thought about posting a few times
over the month of July ~ but things have been busy
and time that I did have were not spent in front of the computer

I am here today to document maybe more for myself
than anyone who may read my words
that my Mama gained her angel wings last week

she had a rough Spring
in and out of the hospital 3 times
and a couple of pretty bad falls

because she had COPD ~ she would get fluid on her lungs
then end up with pneumonia
but she would bounce back and come home after a week or so

when she landed in the hospital in June
the doctor said that she was no longer safe living by herself
so we started looking into an assisted living facility
there were many meetings at the hospital
and going to look at rooms for her
getting things set up for the move and the task of
cleaning out her apartment ~ what to keep
sifting and sorting through your memories can be a 
daunting task yet I was thankful that she sold the house 10 years
ago as there was only a fraction of things to go through

I found a room in a home in my sub division
it was perfect ~ Molly and I could go for a walk and visit
and we did ~ the residents loved seeing the pup come

I posted this on Facebook after we got her moved in

So this is how parents must feel when they drop their kids off at university. 
Leaving them in a dorm room with all their stuff in a house full of strangers. 
She loved her new room and is settling in ~ thankfully I am just a stones throw away #helicopterdaughter

Tuesday she asked to go to the hospital
and I went in after work to see how she was doing
she was sitting up ~ not feeling herself
but not critical for sure

around midnight the phone rang
 she had taken a turn for the worse
so in we went ~ called my brother
and stayed all night
she passed peacefully on Thursday morning
born July 18th ~ passed August 18th
she had just celebrated 70 candles on her cake

today I am still kind of numb
so much to do ~ finalizing things for her apartment
then this afternoon I will go over to her room
and pack up the rest of her things

the power of friendship is an amazing things
I am truly surrounded by the best people
the cards and messages ~ phone calls and visits

my solace now is that she is with the love of her life
she has not truly been happy since Dad passed and that was 15 years ago

while making calls I heard this over and over again
she is with your Dad
they have been reunited

I would have loved to have seen Dad scoop her up and twirl her around
upon her arrival in heaven.


Sunday, May 29, 2016


It's Sunday afternoon and I am sitting here with my to do list
and wondering when I may have time to sit down again before dinnertime

I make it sound so drastic don't I!

reality is I am finishing up a week of vacation
and although it was a busy one ~ we did have some down time too

you see I am having surgery on my hand on Tuesday
so I wanted to get all my planting done and the house cleaned
you know ~ all the things you want to get accomplished
while you still have use of both hands

so while I sit here and watch a squirrel hop along the fence
I know this will be my spot for a week or so 
I have meals pre-made and some shows on the pvr
I have covered most of my bases so to speak
but enough about that.....

last month a group of girls from junior high met on a Sunday morning for brunch
and just to catch up ~ oh what fun we had!

our church celebrated their 50th anniversary and we attended the celebration
the guest speaker was the minister that was there when Trev was growing up
I had heard so much about this wonderful woman and I know now why she was a favourite
it was a beautiful service and the fellowship afterwards was jam packed with people

these girls have a huge chunk of my heart ~ after many failed attempts to get together
we finally got to dinner and I am so glad we did

my gallery wall!  Yes!  I finally bit the bullet and did it
and happy to say that I really really like it

I wanted some pops of red to compliment our new red recliner
and the pops here and there throughout the living room

last time the old gang from the neighborhood got together it was for a funeral
so we made a pact that the next time we got together would be for joy and not sorrow
we made it happen a couple of weekends ago
I have known these 2 since I was five ~ the roots run deep

although we did get to the cottage to open it up for the season
we did not spend the night

we did make it to the camp though as it was already open for the season

there is something about taking your coffee out to the deck in the morning
and just sitting ~ listening to the river and watching the hummingbirds
it was some down time that was required for both of us

so that's pretty much me in a nutshell
all photos taken with my phone because that's the way we roll nowadays

actually big girl camera coming out today as there are some lilacs I have my eye on
vacant lot ~ you know I am coming for you!

Happy Sunday

Friday, March 25, 2016

Friday Potpourri

Friday ~ and exhale........



I am actually on day 3 of a 5 day stretch of time off
and it was welcomed and needed

I knocked off a couple of projects and prepped for others
working on my gallery wall ~ painted some frames
choosing photos

and then there is the coverlet for the bed ~ summer weight
so when we take the quilt off for the summer
there will be something pretty to replace it with



today is a little painting project ~ some touch ups that I have been putting off
and then some curling up on the couch as we have a freezing rain mix
going on right now so we are staying put


feels good to be back after a little time away
busy as mama was in the hospital for a little spell
she is home and fine now but it was a busy couple of weeks

I picked the girls up this week after school ~ we grabbed supper and 
took it over to her place
we all enjoyed our girls night and caught up on the latest news


some other things are heavy on my heart yet 
I feel if I write about it here it is like airing my dirty laundry
let's just say I do not like conflict and you can choose your friends
but you can't choose your family!


my mother in law is hosting Easter dinner tomorrow
always yummy ~ looking forward to it



Happy Easter ~ Happy Weekend

Friday, February 26, 2016

Friday Potpourri

This time of the year I am usually complaining about 
how much snow we have
and how I am tired of winter

truth is this year winter has been a weird season
it was 15 C here today
and snow ~ compared to last year we hardly
have any on the ground



of course this does not mean that I enjoy the winter months
if they were all 15 degrees and sunny
I may have a better relationship with my most dreaded season


weekends are still for nesting and organizing
little projects are getting done
soup making and sweet baking
cozy time on the couch



I finished one book and started another
there is a stack of magazines on my coffee table
and I have finally caught up on my blog reading
forgive me if I haven't been around to comment


 last weekend was game night with #thebestneighboursever
we always have so much fun
some adult beverages ~ great food 
and the best company



can you believe March is next week
time is flying and I feel like I am sitting on the couch
watching it race past

I know I have to make some changes
and take action sooner than later

this weekend I hope to spend some time with my Mama
maybe a trip to the market
unless of course I choose to stay home in my jammies
over that 2nd or 3rd cup of coffee

no solid plans or promises
and that suits me just fine

Friday, February 12, 2016

Friday Potpourri

It's like living in a snow globe
and someone keeps shaking it
as it has been snowing off and on for the past week
or so

it makes driving difficult
but after dark when I am curled up inside
watching the snowflakes dance under the street lights
it looks like lightening bugs
and makes me dream of summer



February means soups and chowders
lazy Sundays and movies
curled up under a throw reading books



I have also been doing some cooking
slow cooker meals and cookie baking
sorting and organizing


I have sat down and made some plans
getting together with friends
trying to get out and enjoy the sunshine
when it happens to appear



this weekend is a 3 day one for me
so I am looking forward to checking everything off
my to do list
wish me luck please! 


with Sunday being Valentines day
we may go out for dinner ~ still figuring that one out


whatever we do
it will be with love

Happy weekend